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Whether you think you can or can’t, either way you’re right!

By workwithdaveandjoy | September 4, 2017 - 2:41 pm |September 4, 2017 Alert, Balance the Body, Build with TAVALA, Dave and Joy, fat loss, How to Earn Income with Tavala, How to Join Tavala, How to Sign up with TAVALA, Increase Energy, Increase Focus, kigelia africana fruit, natural mood elevation, Network Marketing for Women, Success, Tavala, Tavala products are TRIM, Tavala Quantum Relief, Tavala Trim, Train with Dave and Joy, Training with Dave and Joy, Transformational Life Coaching, Work From Home, work with Dave and Joy, work with Dave and Joy, www.DaveandJoy
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I get weekly emails from www.Goalcast.com that are inspirational and often times I use bits and pieces in Facebook posts or in conversations.

This article, written by Aimee Halpin, on August 22, 2017 caught my attention and I want to apply it to my life. (my Business life, my Personal life and my Recreational life.)

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.” Henry Ford

“Did you know that your brain believes what it hears on a regular basis? This is true especially if you say it out loud or even under your breath multiple times a day. If you say “I can’t do that,” your brain believes you and makes it come to pass in some area of your life.

As we begin to look at the way we are talking to ourselves, our beliefs start to change. The words that are red flags in our minds are things like: never, hate, won’t, can’t, and even always.

If we tell ourselves things in absolutes, we start to believe them… even if they aren’t true.

Shifting from Can’t to Can: 8 Practices to Put in Place Right Now

You can only lose what you cling to. – Buddha

I want you to think of an area where you are selling yourself short right now. Where do you tell yourself you can’t achieve a goal that would really make a difference in your life? Breathe. Pause. Reflect. I want you to visualize the negative words as balloons and you are now releasing them to the sky.

I am going to show you eight practices that you can put in place right now that will really help you make that shift from can’t to can. All you need to do is believe.

  1. Become an observer of your thoughts. I get it. It’s a tough time, but before you share someone’s opinion or post a status using the words in absolutes, think about if you believe it. You are reinforcing an absolute behavior.
  2. Instead of letting your thoughts and emotions run away with you, start to observe if what you are telling yourself is even true, and whether it is yours. Is it old karmic nonsense that you just have on autopilot playing in your head? Was it passed down?
  3. Change your morning routine to include a positive affirmation: I am healing. I am living a life filled with abundance. You get to be in charge of the positives here.
  4. Remember Winnie the Pooh? How Eeyore acted? Be an observer not only of your thoughts, but of what energy you are putting out there. Are you attracting more negative?
  5. Appreciate the good in your life and celebrate the achievements. Small steps are better than none taken. As Mother Teresa said: “Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.”
  6. I am a big believer in the science of brain-based healing. Studies have shown that thoughts alone can actually improve vision, fitness and strength. Brain chemistry and circuitry are constantly being re-wired as we shift to better thoughts.
  7. When people consciously practice gratitude, they get a surge of rewarding neurotransmitters, like dopamine, and experience more illumination of the mind. If you don’t believe me, practice a gratitude ritual for 30 days and see how your life has changed in that time. It really changes your stress level.
  8. I have seen epigenetics work in my own life. That means I am speaking to my genes with every thought I have. This is the part that might seem crazy, but the truth is that your biology doesn’t give you a reason to give up the fight. Epigenetics is showing that you really can change the way your body reacts and responds. Essentially, how genes are read by cells is actually changed by who you interact with and how you think and respond to life. It’s pretty powerful research.”

OK…. now a question may be “How do you apply this to YOUR life”?

When I first read this article all I could relate it to was my recent activity I just began. Bikram Yoga. Today is day 15…..15 classes in 15 days. Imagine that? When I first reviewed my Beginner’s Bikram book I literally panicked and my self-talk was very damaging. Phrases like you can’t do that, you won’t be able to, what are you crazy? etc. flooded my brain as well as flew out of my mouth. I had to apply some of the principles above….and each day I began to believe in my abilities over my initial self talk. One day at a time!

Sometimes in business I feel my goals are very ‘aggressive’. The goals and numbers often seem impossible to reach as well as the income projections we strive to reach sometimes seem inobtainable- but once again I tell myself- “many people have reached those goals- so why not me? Yes, you can do it too!”

As for our business with TAVALA and products we represent it is interesting that I did a poll not long ago with a group that I called my “test case”. Those that received the best results with our flagship product TAVALA TRIM were those who went into their daily usage with a positive mind and without skepticism. They believed the TRIM would work and they were open to the changes. Those who were what I call “Debbie Doubters…or Debbie Downers” fit into another category. They got mediocre results in comparison to the positive minded group and many claimed they just could not get themselves to remember to drink the one ‘thermogenic’ drink daily.

 

 

 

 

Joy Edgerton

802-846-7530

joyedgerton@gmail.com

www.DaveandJoy.com

 

 

 

 

 

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We Used this Thinking and TAVALA Showed Up!

By workwithdaveandjoy | March 25, 2017 - 10:56 am |March 25, 2017 ALERT, Alert, Appetite Suppressant, Build with TAVALA, Control and Trim for Weight Loss, Cost of Tavala Trim, Cruise with Tavala, Dave and Joy, fat loss, How to Earn Income with Tavala, How to Join Tavala, How to Sign up with TAVALA, Increase Energy, Increase Focus, Ketogenic Diet, ketones, kigelia africana fruit, melatonin, PowerStrips, Quantum Energy, Quantum Relief Strip, shake, Sleep, sleep loss, Social Entrepreneur, Subscription Box Company, Success, success in network marketing, Tavala, Tavala Branding, Tavala Compensation Plan, TAVALA CONTROL, Tavala Control to control Blood Sugar, Tavala Opportunity, Tavala Quantum Relief, Tavala Trim, Tavala Trim for Athletes, Train with Dave and Joy, Training with Dave and Joy, Transformational Life Coaching, weight Loss, women in network marketing, Work From Home, work with Dave and Joy, Year Career for Women
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We Used This Thinking and TAVALA Showed Up!

Back in December 2016 we were at a cross roads in our professional Network Marketing career. What HAD been working was no longer working. An investment of 10 years with one company that I loved was simply not providing what we needed financially or professionally. We had begun a search back in July that led us down a different, but in some way similar path, but because that was only partly successful and gratifying, and we knew it was not where we were supposed to be. It was CEO= Clear Easy and Obvious.

I still remember sitting on our couch in early December, 2016, like it was yesterday. We both got VERY CLEAR on what we desire in our life and spoke of it aloud and with conviction. We were no longer willing to settle for mediocrity, we WERE GOING TO ATTRACT EVERYTHING WE WANT AND DESIRE….EVEN IF WE DON’T KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IT WOULD LOOK LIKE. And thus began the MAGIC!

How does TAVALA come into play? Within 24-48 hours we received phone calls, had conversations and implemented a plan that has us working with TAVALA in a capacity that is exactly what we desired. And whatever we seem to do with in our TAVALA business and opportunity, it is working…with ease. Yes, we are on our Path!

So here is a good question for and your path..or the direction you are heading.

Are you aligning yourself with what you truly want or are you taking action on and moving towards things that you don’t want because of fear?

Sometimes we make choices out of fear because we don’t truly believe that what we want is possible and we don’t truly believe that we can actually do it and succeed…

When in fact we can, we just give ourselves an “out” and play things safe because we’re too scared to take a leap into the unknown without a back up plan.

But when you play things safe and give yourself an out…

You don’t show up in ways that will grow you and get you the results that you want…

You lack the sense of urgency to figure things out and make things work NOW….

And you get back into your comfort zone until another year passes and you think to yourself “WTF am I still doing here in the same place as I was last year… I should be further ahead by now…”….

The moment that you don’t give yourself any outs and you let yourself stress a little bit… (ok ok… A LOT)…

Because you make a decision to move towards your goals, but you don’t have a clue on how it’s going to happen or if it will really work, is the moment that the universe starts working it’s magic and finds you the resources you need to get you to where you want to be.

But if you keep playing it safe and giving yourself an out…

The universe won’t know what you truly want because you say you want one thing, but take action on the exact opposite…

So the messages you’re sending out get confusing and the universe ends up giving you more of what you don’t want because that’s what you’re focusing and taking action on.

So ask yourself and decide “What is it that I truly want?” and take action!

Don’t give yourself an out or any other options. Just make what you want happen!

If you are looking for a business opportunity – a way of bringing additional income to your household – a new career- a way to create a Life Style that you desire- a way to make a difference in the lives of many- a way to become a leader and also meet new people, then perhaps what we found with TAVALA will be what you are looking for…. disguised as a business opportunity.

We’d love to chat and discuss what you may be looking for and how Tavala could be a venue for you to reach your goals and desires.. 802-846-7530 or info@DaveandJoy.com

Dave and Joy

802-846-7530

info@DaveandJoy.com

www.DaveandJoy.com

I’d like to give credit to Cassie Pereversoff, owner of the group BOSS BABE on Facebook. Her post today inspired this blog. http://www.successwithcassie.com

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