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Thinking of Changing MLM Companies?
Thinking of Changing MLM Companies?
I was speaking with a friend the other day and we were talking about our experience of leaving a network marketing company that we once loved, but one that was no longer serving our goals in life or our finances like it once had.
He had left a company after being with them for over 22 years- one where he had earned over $3 Million dollars. I could relate as we had recently resigned from a company I had been with for over 10 years. We both decided to WALK AWAY from the monthly check… breaking ties in order to be authentic in our conversations with friends who were looking to join our new companies or opportunity.
What neither of us expected was that leaving a company we once loved on so many levels, from the corporate staff, the team, the product, the friendships, trips etc. was like a divorce. It hurt. But sometimes you have to do what is best for YOU and your families, your peace of mind. What did pleasantly surprise both of us is that many- if not most people remained friends no matter what we did or where we went. These people were true friends…not just by being affiliated with the same MLM company. Dave and I call them our HOT TUB FRIENDS, people we enjoy spending time with – enough that we’d be in a hot tub together with an adult beverage in hand and simply have FUN.
Then there were the so-called friends who as soon as you change companies, UNFRIEND you on Facebook, or talk bad about our decisions for our lives. They are upset and say it is not fair that you are leaving the company, while they choose to stay there. I just don’t get it. Real friends want what is best for you and your family- right???? Imagine being a waiter at a restaurant and you could earn 3x the money being a waiter at another restaurant. People would wish you well and say you made a great decision for your life, right? or another analogy is a car sales man who changes the dealership because it is a better financial opportunity for him and his family, and besides, he enjoys selling that new brand of automobile over the one at his past dealership. It’d be silly to talk bad about them for their decision, right? So I don’t quite get it why network marketing is any different.
My point here is to to do what is best for you.
Sometimes you just have to follow your inner guidance and JUST DO IT! Follow your intuitive self- the one that guides you to what is best for you in your life. The direction….EVEN if it is more difficult that staying in the status quo or familiarity.
Do the Thing – Just Do It- HAVE THE COURAGE to move in the direction of your dreams.
I found this brief video clip motivational and hope you do too. So whatever change you may be looking at in your life, if it supports your goals and dreams go for it.
If you are at the Cross Roads in your MLM Career and are pondering changing companies or exploring what else may be able to support your goals and dreams give us a call. (802-846-7530)
What is the right company for you? How can you get started? How will you know?
Dave and I are both coaches. I am more a transformational Life Coach on topics like LifeStyle, Health, Fitness, Changes in Life and Dave’s strength is more Business Coaching and Inspirational / Motivational Coaching.
However we can support you, give us a call to see if what WE are doing with ViiVa may be the right fit for what you are looking for in your life. You will be totally honored in the process….AND I promise, it will be a fun exploration.
We can’t wait to speak with you.
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